I'm also struck by the importance of "not annoying" others by the experience of a reformed white supremacist, who said not being hardline against him helped him to change, and the writings of Paul K Chappell, who I've mentioned previously (e.g., here). In “The Art of Waging Peace” (pub. Prospecta Press, reprint 2015, ISBN 978-1632260314 [Amazon]), Mr Chappell - in a section on listening, and how the target is to change the position of enough people, not all people - quotes the following comment by Leslee Goodman on how Mr Chappell was able to change the mind of a pro-war person:
"I had lost patience with one such person after ten minutes of unproductive dialogue. The Chappell showed up. He respectfully engaged my critic for a full forty-five minutes. Their conversation ended with the man thanking Chappell for listening to him and accepting a copy of [his book] The End of War. A few weeks later Chappell ran into the man and learned that he had read the book and had changed his mind about war as a means of ending terrorism."So . . . outrage - personally satisfying though it is for dealing with the frustrations and trauma of living under bigotry, hate and backwardness - may not help make the world a better place . . .
I'm not ready for that level of objective engagement as yet, but I've decided to work at it :)
Apparently Ms Goodwin's book inspired Barack Obama to get involved with politics. I wonder how my life might have gone if I'd come across something like this as a teenager, or even a decent inspiration instead of living under Queensland's evil "Great Flying Peanut" and his gerrymander . . .
Ah well, I will do what I can with what I have and where I am - beginning right after I and my family all get over the most debilitating flu I've ever experienced :)
It has been interesting seeing the internal political processes in the party I have joined. If I can keep my health together, I'll probably have another go at getting elected to a role in a couple of years. In the meantime, policy committees remain my primary interest.
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